Processing Power

A short list of post-friendship exercises. I wrote about the abrupt end of two very important friendships earlier this month. I've been gentling myself through processing how I've been feeling. I've had to accept that I'm grieving. One of the things holding me back from accepting that I would have to grieve these friendships was… Continue reading Processing Power

Reflection, Relationships

Questions and Criticisms

Am I being too hard on myself? I think it's largely a rhetorical question but one with merit nonetheless. I'm thinking a lot on the idea of wellness, and all of the tricks/tips/best practices that are swirling around on the Internet these days. One of the tips that I found interesting came via Garance Doré's… Continue reading Questions and Criticisms


When the House Burns Down

The springtime has me feeling some type of way. Two of my important friendships ended in December, which prompted me to change my relationship to social media. We'd been friends for over a decade at that point and I keenly feel the loss. If you imagine friendship as a lifelong project, a home that you build together,… Continue reading When the House Burns Down